Are some words that used to be swear words (at least where I grew up) legitimate to use now? I live in Seattle, WA where there is a somewhat controversial reformed-esque mega-church. I live with and have many friends that attend there and noticed that the "a" word (not in the context of a donkey) and the "b" word (not in the context of a female dog) are used with much freedom and liberality. Bretheren, is this right? What should an individual in my situation do?

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[B]Nse'

Seattle, WA
Reformed Church
I have set the Lord always before me; Because He is at my right hand I shall not be moved

Psalm 16:8