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As a younger married man, I feel qualified to give you a little advice.
1) Dating is really tough. Even with a Christian girl, the pressure that the world will put on you as a couple is pretty terrible, and highly unnecessarry. Since getting married I've realised just what a minefield dating is, and wouldn't reccommend it. I hated Josh Harris until I got married, and then worked out just how wise his advice is.
2) If you decide to date, make sure you surround yourself with a good group of Christian friends who will keep you both accountable. A constant pressure like that on purity is invaluable.
3) Don't date. Just get married. [/idealist]
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