One way would to focus solely upon scripture; literally the text. My opinion, understand this, instead of focusing upon the gross nature of this sin, see as well the chronic assault of the first commandment that you and I are as well guilty of. Stop there. Work on that one; you will as well never be able to NOT break this commandment. May this fact haunt you as well! It's interesting that certain sins assault us more than the others. When was the last time you were haunted by breaking the first commandment? Practically speaking, your heart is in the correct place; look to Christ. He accomplished that which is impossible for us worms.

Hope this helps.

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Scott Bushey
Husband to Tina, father to Nicole, Danielle and Zoe
Member First Presbyterian Church of Margate PCA